~women and their men~

Now ladies, have you ever been around your girl friends and talked "boy" talk? Of Course you have!!  And what do we hear? - "why doesn't he say goodnight?" "How come he won't respond. Is he doing something he shouldn't be?" "We haven't had sex in months! Do you think he's cheating?" I was once like this.. not too long ago. And I have definitely learned my lesson. The more you show your man you don't trust him, the more you push him away. Trying to tell my friends to relax and not worry about it and that its most likely nothing (which is true in most situations) just makes them go off a wall. They don't believe it.

It made me think.. if I was in their shoes.. would I be worried. My answer... if this was lets say about 6+ months ago YES! but now.. No! After the love of my life left me. I was devastated for sure.. but I got to find who I truly was.. and I wasn't this crazy woman who cared about every little thing her boyfriend was doing. I lost myself somewhere in the struggle. I realized that I had gone insane. That is not my style and to see these young women go through the same thing makes me feel sad for them because they have a whole life in front of them. Why sit and worry about this one. I mean if he's a good guy Hell keep him!  But if he is no good! Girl get rid of him!! Don't go down a ugly road that is not worth it. Little side note tho: they might agree with you when you tell them this.. but they still won't listen.

When something negative goes through a woman's head, even the slightest negativity that gets put into her head, it will turn into one of the biggest things on her mind. She'll blow it out of proportion! For example, you're having a girls night and its about 830pm. Your just relaxing having a glass of wine and joking around. One of your friends says "He hasn't said anything since 3 o'clock this afternoon! What do you think he's been up to? He's not answering any of my texts." You may reply laughing, " Maybe he found someone else to talk to." This may be funny to you but not so much to your friend. In her head she's thinking "OMG what if he is talking to someone else. What if he doesn't like/love me anymore?!" She starts to become worried. Worried turns to jealousy. Jealousy is often taken as crazy. This friend of yours is sure to start a fight with her man not too long after.

So are women hard headed? maybe naive? or just plain crazy? I think we over analyze a bit too much! and at times are misunderstood.

MR I AM 2012!

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